Is it just me, or is it crazy that we're already just about halfway through this year? The passage of time is such a strange thing, especially since last year. The calendar tells me that it is, in fact, the last week of June, so it's time to check in on my One Little Word, with thanks to Carolyn for hosting us for the monthly link-up.
When I thought about Balance this month, I had one thing in mind:
I am usually terrible about taking time off from work. Part of this, I think, is because I already get off quite a few days anyway -- the federal holidays, plus Martin Luther King Jr. Day, plus a random day in March, plus at least a week at the end of the year. I take time off when I travel to fiber festivals and usually add an extra day or so to my winter break, but the only time I've ever used up all my time off when I had to on my maternity leave (and I had so much time stored up that I was off for 12 weeks and only one was unpaid time). My employer still breaks down time off into sick days (one day per month), personal days (two per year), and vacation days (I've been there long enough that I get 20 days a year). The personal days expire at the end of each fiscal year (the end of June), so I usually end up taking two random days off in June for no particular reason other than to use them. And in a typical year, I can only acquire vacation time until I've reached my maximum, so if I'm getting close, I have to use some of that time off before I can earn more. During the pandemic, however, that limit was temporarily lifted, I suppose because they wanted people to be able to feel they could take time off if they were sick or exposed. That cap is going back on at the end of the month, though, so my hand was forced and I found that I had to take six days off if I wanted to earn vacation time for this month.
Now, taking vacation time when you've been working from home doesn't feel very different or really much like a vacation. Other than not being tethered to my computer, my daily activities are very much the same. But it means that I can take a longer or more leisurely walk, that I can spend time going down crafty rabbit holes with Rainbow (we're working on crochet amigurumi animals this week), that I can stay up just a little later each night if I'm not ready to stop reading just yet. I am still checking my work email every couple of days, but I'm not responding to anything -- just seeing what's happening so I'm not completely stressed out when I'm officially back in the office. It's been wonderful. And it'll get even better, because this weekend we're going on our first trip since the last time we were in Florida in December 2019. We are just headed up to Michigan to visit my aunt and uncle and will spend all our time there at their house, but it's the first time we'll have seen them since December 2019 and the first time we've been to the state of Michigan since my brother graduated from college in 2010 (Rainbow was still a newborn!).
It's also time to update my 21 in 2021 list:
- Bake challah for shabbat DONE
Run a 5K straightWalk the length of the UK - in progress- Learn a new knitting technique DONE
- Sew a project bag DONE
- Knit a sweater out of handspun DONE
- Spin for a sweater - in progress
- Read a book outside my comfort zone DONE
- Try making pastry
- Knit or crochet a toy DONE
- Design a crochet pattern
- Read a biography/autobiography DONE
- Spin the oldest fiber in my stash DONE
- Knit five items for charity DONE
- Finish my WIPs from 2020 DONE
- Knit a sweater for Rainbow DONE
- Knit socks for my brother DONE
- Read a book of poetry DONE
- Read a book by a Native American/Indigenous author DONE
- Try three new meatless recipes DONE
- Go for at least three bike rides
- Read a book Rainbow reads for school DONE
I've crossed a few more things off my list: I learned a new knitting technique (ladderback jacquard floats for colorwork), finished the socks for my brother, and read a book by an Indigenous author. I have also officially changed item number 2 to be walking the length of the UK (1,083 miles) over the course of the year, and as of Saturday, I've walked a bit more than 752 miles and am averaging between 30 and 35 miles a week, so I am on track to hit that goal in the early fall. I'm fairly confident that I will be able to cross all the items off my list before the end of the year, which tells me that I've put together a good list, though maybe I didn't challenge myself quite enough if I'm not going to be working to finish this list until the end of the year. I guess that's something to carry into 2022!
I'm so glad you're taking some time off to visit family and just . . . enjoy not working! That seems like a great way to get some balance in your life. XO
ReplyDeleteI hear you on time off...Steve and I had a long conversation this weekend about work from home/work from the office... since they went back to "at work" he has been working his usual hours plus then working from home when he gets home from work. Not a healthy balance at all, but we brainstormed on how he might solve that. We will see how it goes this week!
ReplyDeleteI love how you have focused on your list! (but you still have things to do!)
Happy travels to Michigan! I imagine it will be a real treat for the senses, after being so close to home for such a long time. I felt such a deep appreciation for the slightest of shifts, even while venturing out in our own state, at first. Refreshing, for sure! (And I really enjoyed your list update.)
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you're getting some time away from your house soon! I've never been to Michigan but it looks beautiful. And I'm glad you're thinking about using your time off to help with your goal of more balance, especially since your home/work life has been so intertwined lately.
ReplyDeleteYour goal of walking the length of the UK is really awesome. Are you doing one of the virtual challenges where you log your miles or are you keeping it up with it yourself? It's such a fun way to feel like there's a purpose behind the walks, isn't it?
Your list is nearly complete! I'm excited to see what pastry you try to make... that sort of thing intimidates me!
Vacation time matters and I'm glad you are taking some!
ReplyDeleteTime away from work is important and I'm glad you'll have some time away from home soon! It seems especially difficult to stop work at the end of the day when you're working from home and work is always there, but you seem to have mastered it!
ReplyDeleteYou are doing a great job with your list and three cheers for walking the UK!
ReplyDeleteSounds like your vacation time...while at home...is very much like mine. but YAY for getting to Michigan. Safe travels and have some fun. You've made such fabulous progress on your list of 21 in 2021 - you will definitely complete them all.
ReplyDeleteI am so impressed with the progress you’ve made with your 21 in 21 list! You go girl! You’ve inspired me to get crackin’ on (makin’) mine! Thanks.
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I think your 21 in 21 list must be just right. Congratulations on your progress.
ReplyDeleteI love your choice of goals - it looks as if you picked things that did not stress you out but were really manageable and fun to do! Congratulations, really well done! (And I am right there with you on the confusion about the calendar. I'm still stuck somewhere in May)
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