I suspect I'm not the only one who looked at a calendar this morning and realized that this is the last Monday of August. I swear this month just started! But with school starting for Mo tomorrow and the High Holidays coming up soon, I suppose I should not be shocked. Because it is the last Monday of the month, that means it's time to check in with my One Little Word and join the link-up hosted by Carolyn.
It's been a very busy month, so at first I didn't feel like I had much time to embrace much of anything. But then I changed my perspective and realized that what I fully embraced this month were my responsibilities. There were the usual things I needed to do for work and some weekend commitments, but my synagogue board responsibilities also ramped up quite a bit this month. I'm not sure if I've mentioned it, but in addition to serving on the board and the executive committee, I'm also serving on the committee conducting the search for our next rabbi. We are hoping to get the job posting up before the High Holidays, which are soon, so that meant a lot of work. I had several work sessions with two other members of the committee that required us to synthesize and summarize a large amount of information gathered from members of the congregation and put it into succinct answers to eight questions. There have been extra meetings related to this committee as well. And the Mister has been traveling for work, so that has meant single-parenting (though in all honesty, that's a lot easier than it used to be).
In the past, all this activity might have made me very stressed out, but I've noticed that I've handled it quite well. I won't say it hasn't been exhausting, but something about knowing that there was a limit to the busy-ness helped me keep things in perspective. I think continuing to work from home full time has also been a huge help because it's granted me much more flexibility. Last week, for instance, I had a project for work that was a rush and had to get done ASAP, so I brought my work laptop down to the kitchen and finished it up while dinner was getting ready in the oven, allowing me to keep working even though the workday was technically over and letting me cross that item off my list that day so I didn't worry about it overnight. The real test, of course, will start tomorrow, when we're back to the school year schedule, but I'm feeling good about things at the moment, especially knowing that the month ahead includes a number of celebrations.
How has your One Little Word treated you this month?
I think I'm just not a One Little Word person because I've never been able to maintain it for more than a few months. But I am impressed with you embracing an attitude adjustment. The rabbi search committee and the board sound like a lot of work outside of work, but they must be important to you, and I'm sure your work is important to many others. All the best to Mo as she gets ready for 8th grade!
ReplyDeleteWhat a fantastic month, Sarah! I love how embrace has expanded for you this year (and yay for finding yourself immersed in embrace!)
ReplyDeleteI hope that this school year is extra special for Mo... and that the start eases you back into a schedule you will find familiar! :)
You do sound busy! BUT, so much of what you are doing also sounds very satisfying. And, perspective is everything (well, almost everything). isn't it? Wishing Mo a wonderful new school year.
ReplyDeleteAt this point I feel like I have completely lost touch with my OLW and I'm not sure I'm motivated to get back on track but we'll see. I'm glad you were able to embrace your responsibilities in a way that feels good.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you're embracing abundance! I think you make an important point here--that when you know something has a deadline, a 'limit to the busy-ness,' it's easier to embrace. And I'll bet with your strengths and skills, you're a phenomenal addition to the search committee!)
ReplyDeleteWishing Mo a good start tomorrow and a good 'return to school-year rhythm' for your household.
Wise lessons, Sarah! Here's to a new season filled with more things to embrace. XO (And best wishes for a wonderful school year for Mo!)
ReplyDeleteYou met the challenges of August well. Kudos to you for being so active in your synagogue. Search committees for leaders take lots of time, energy, and finesse. I hope the school year gets off to a good start.
ReplyDeleteI think you are embracing the pace of things. I have noticed a shift as you take life in stride. Strong work!
ReplyDeleteEmbrace feels like best posture for synagogue leadership AND a new school year! (and maybe work, too?!?) These are such great lessons about how much our mindset affects the outcome. I'm ready to embrace a new season!
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