TGIF, Really

I am a little later than usual in posting today because yesterday was A Day. Normally I get a post ready to go the afternoon or evening before it publishes, but yesterday I barely had a chance to sit down and have some time to myself until almost 9 p.m., and I didn't have the mental energy to do it them. So instead you're getting me in real time on Friday morning!

So why was yesterday so challenging? Well the first thing you have to know is that it was hot and extremely humid. And with the stage of life I'm in, it takes very little for me to start sweating. My first sweat of the day was taking Ruthie out for her first walk and then immediately going into the office for my biweekly team meeting. I was pretty much soaked when I got there. When I got home from my meeting, I changed into workout clothes and went for a walk (and got sweaty again). I didn't bother changing when I got home because I'd be taking Ruthie out for her midday walk after lunch and getting hot again anyway. After that walk, I did shower and change, again, to go to that recognition ceremony. I had to walk about a mile and a quarter to get to that event, at probably the hottest part of the day, so naturally I was a sweaty mess when I got there. Even though the event was inside, I was in a room with a bunch of people and sitting on a vinyl-covered chair, so I never fully cooled off. And then on the way home, when I was a mere three blocks from my street, I got caught in a thunderstorm, and though I had an umbrella, it did little to protect me from rain blowing sideways, so I was dripping by the time I got to my door and had to change yet again -- and there was still one more walk to take Ruthie on, though thankfully the rain cooled things down just a bit. If you're keeping track, that's four outfit changes over the course of the day. I also had to take a second shower before bed. And if that's not enough (and sorry if this is TMI), Aunt Flo arrived for her visit yesterday, so I was dealing with cramps as well. Can you see why I'm very glad it's the end of the week?

It's going to be another steamy day today, but the humidity is supposed to go down quite a bit tonight, so the weekend should be more comfortable. And I am thankful for the rain we've been getting after a dry week so that all the plants and flower seeds are getting watered. I'm really looking forward to having a typical afternoon today, a time to read and knit while Ruthie naps next to me. Thanks to afternoons like that earlier in the week, I've finished another charity hat:

It still needs to be blocked, but I'm pretty happy with it. I used my Spinning in Infinity pattern (Ravelry link) with US 5/3.75 mm needles for the body and US 3/3.25 mm needles for the ribbing. It used 90 g of the skein of Chroma Twist in Lupine; clearly my skein was underweight because I had only a few grams remaining and it was supposed to be 100 g.

Last night, in that little bit of time I had to myself, I cast on another hat -- a second attempt at that hat I wasn't sure about.

This is the last skein of Chroma Twist from my stash. It's now discontinued, which is why I think I bought a bunch of skeins of it a while back because it was likely heavily discounted. The black yarn you see is a provisional cast-on for a tubular edge and will be removed very soon. The consensus from those of you who commented here and from some friends on Ravelry was that the hat was cute, so I'm giving it a try with a more interesting yarn and seeing if I can make it pattern.

I'm hoping to have a quiet weekend; Molly has a bunch of stuff going on, including her first official driving lesson, but none of her activities will require me to do anything. I've not slept well this week, so I'm hoping I can get a little extra (though this time of year, it's tough to sleep in because the sun comes up so early!), and maybe I can sneak in an afternoon nap or two!

Have a great weekend, friends. Remember to stay hydrated, wear your sunblock, and enjoy the good things.

Unraveled, Week 23/2026

Happy Wednesday! It has been a steamy start to the week, and I've found that I've been less and less tolerant of heat and humidity, so I've just accepted that it's the time of year when I'm going to have to deal with being sweaty all the time. I've also pretty much given up on blow-drying my hair unless I really feel like I want to look nice -- wet bun for the win! This weather is probably why I've feel a little unexcited about knitting lately, but I did promise some more official FO shots of my recent finishes and it's Wednesday, so I'm linking up with Kat and the Unravelers as per usual.

First, the baby pants!

The pattern is Rocky from Tin Can Knits. I chose the smallest size (0-6 months), even though I usually make a larger size for baby knits, because this baby will be born in Sweden and will need some warm clothing right away. I knit these at the gauge called for in the pattern, 24 stitches over 4 inches, but the fabric seems a little too loose for my taste, so the next time I knit these -- and trust me, there will be a next time -- I will likely either use a smaller needle and one of the larger sizes or just use thicker yarn. As is always the case with TCK patterns, this one was a breeze to follow and didn't require any modification. I didn't even need to wind off any yarn to start the second leg because the first one was bound off in just the right spot!

Next up, that hat I wasn't sure about:

I hope you can excuse the crazy hair; I pulled out the bun to get the hat to fit as it should. The reason I wasn't so sure about the hat is that I'm not sure if the pointy-uppy part looks fun or just ridiculous. I'm sure it'll suit someone, though, and that's just as well because this is going to the charity pile. But I was experimenting with the crown decreases all the same to satisfy my curiosity for design purposes. Any thoughts are welcome!

I'm sticking with a more traditional look for the current hat on the needles (also for the charity pile), which is now onto the ribbing.

Reading! There's been more of it! Here are the books I've finished this week:

I love a retelling of a classic, and I especially love a retelling of a Jane Austen novel. Unmarriageable is a retelling of Pride and Prejudice set in early 21st-century Pakistan, and it's brilliantly done. Alys (the Elizabeth Bennet character) is even an English literature teacher who loves Jane Austen! What was really interesting about this book was that storylines didn't really have to be modernized all that much to make sense, and the author notes that when she first read Austen, she very much felt like the world of those novels were nearly identical to the Pakistani society she knew. The author reads the audiobook and does a good job with the voices and accents. I also really appreciated the names she came up with for the characters and the traits that made them so recognizable. I gave it 4.5 stars, rounded up.

I wanted something fairly light and whimsical next, so I went for A Witch's Guide to Magical Innkeeping, a relatively recent release (it came out last summer) that I've heard mentioned on podcasts several times. Sera was once a young witch with incredible powers, but she lost them and was exiled from the local guild after she cast a powerful spell to bring her beloved great aunt (and, inadvertently, the aunt's beloved late rooster) back to life. Fifteen years later, she's running the inn where they live and that's slightly magical in such a way that it appears to those who need it and thus has become home to people who don't seem to fit in anywhere. While it's partly a story about Sera trying to get her powers back, what I enjoyed the most about it was that it was a story about found family and people coming to love themselves. I gave it 4 stars.

In Unlikely Animals, Emma Starling, who once possessed the ability to heal people through touch, has returned to her childhood home in a small New Hampshire town. She was accepted to medical school but decided not to go, and when she learns that her father has a mysterious brain disease causing him to hallucinate animals and the ghost of a famous local naturalist, going home seems to be the best option. There she finds her mother hasn't fully forgiven her father for having an affair and her brother is struggling to get his life back on track after getting out of rehab for opioid addiction, and while her father is seeing animals and ghosts, he's also determined to find Emma's childhood best friend, who disappeared some months ago and is presumed to be dead of an overdose. This sounds like it would be incredibly depressing, but it's actually mostly funny and heartwarming. I think I enjoyed The Road to Tenderhearts a little more, but I gave this one 4 stars.

The Last Ranger sounded good to me when it was described in a recent podcast episode, and I've liked the Peter Heller books I've read before, so I thought I'd give it a try. It follows Ren, a park ranger in Yellowstone, as he investigates what looks to be poaching and then what appears to be an attack on his friend Hilly, a biologist who specializes in wolves. He also reflects on his childhood and the alcoholism of and abandonment by his mother. I thought the book was interesting, and it held my attention for the most part, but I struggled to follow the story and keep track of the characters at times. That may have been because I was listening rather than reading with my eyes, but regardless, this was not my favorite Heller. I gave it 3 stars.

I heard about How to Commit a Postcolonial Murder on a podcast (are you shocked?). For such a short novel -- only about 200 pages -- there is a lot going on here. The narrator and her sister are the product of an Indian mother and American father, and they live in Wyoming while their father is away working on oil rigs. They struggle with the usual issues of identity and being "other" in a very white small town, but when their mother's brother and his family come from India to live with them, that is the least of their worries. When their uncle begins to molest them, the sisters decide that they can't tell their mother and make her unhappy, so the best solution is to murder him by poisoning him with antifreeze. It's weird and different but also intriguing. I gave it 3 stars.

Now I'm trying to finish up the last 80 or so pages of Whistler, and I have several books waiting to start next. How about you -- what are you making and reading this week?

Fire and Rain

It certainly felt like a summer weekend here! The heat started building on Friday, leading up to an honest-to-goodness thunderstorm Saturday afternoon (incidentally, while Molly was out driving, giving her some "bad driving conditions" hours). We really needed the rain, after more than a week without any, and it was kind of fun to watch it come it from the comfort of the couch -- it conveniently came through between Ruthie's midday walk and her late-afternoon walk. It cleared up and even cooled off a bit in the evening, but we had some more rain overnight and there's plenty more in the forecast for the week ahead, along with humidity. I expect it will be a sweaty week!

Part of my weekend was spent finishing up and blocking my two most recent projects, presented for you here still wet:

That drawstring will need to be threaded through the waistband once dry, and I also might need to do a little duplicate stitching on the bum of the pants because I had some loosey-goosey stitches result from some of my short rows. The hat will be tried on once dry; I'm still not sure if it'll look fun or silly.

The week ahead is shaping up to be a little busier than last. Ruthie has her annual visit at the vet scheduled for Wednesday morning. She is due to get a vaccination, but they always make a fuss over her and give her cookies and peanut butter, so I don't think she'll mind much. On Thursday, I'm planning to attend a reception with the university's chancellor honoring employees for long service; officially I'm being recognized for 20 years of service, but because my employer moves so slowly on things like this, I'll actually be closer to 21 years than 20 by the time this happens. It'll be interesting to see what happens at this event. It's in the middle of the afternoon, so maybe we'll get some light refreshments. Frankly I'm more interested in the recognition gift I selected: After getting what was essentially an ashtray for five years (rather than the mug it used to be and that I was hoping for) and a set of bookends for 10, I picked out a pair of binoculars -- because I'm now a middle-aged lady and of course I've taken up casual birding. There's rain in the forecast almost every day starting Tuesday, and I'm hoping when it comes it works with my schedule to get my runs and walks in. Last week, for the first time ever, I managed three 10Ks in a single week, but I think that's a feat I'm unlikely to repeat now that summertime heat and humidity have descended on us. Still, I'm pretty proud of that accomplishment!

I'm working on some small projects now while I figure out what bigger thing to cast on next, but at the very least I should have some better photos of the above projects to share on Wednesday along with the usual reading update. I hope you're also seeing sun and needed rain in your neck of the woods -- don't forget to stay well hydrated and wear your sunblock! Have a good start to your week, all!

Summer Incoming

TGIF! It's been a long week, even though it's been pretty calm having Molly at home with me. Partly it's that we're getting more daylight as we approach the summer solstice, but Ruthie's also been stretching out our walks by plopping down on lawns and refusing to move, which contributes the feeling that the stuff I have to do every day is taking more time.

It has been nice to have Molly around, though she's mainly been holed up in her room (she's decided that she's just relaxing this first week of summer break; I think she's earned it). We did pick up some dinner and take it over to my mother's the other evening when both my father and the Mister were out, so that was fun, and she even helped me make dinner on Wednesday. I expect that she'll be working during the week soon, which I'm hoping will encourage her to get up at a more reasonable hour every day.

After having several days of my absolute favorite weather ever -- sunny, low to mid-70s, low humidity -- the heat and the mugginess are coming back. Yesterday the humidity was still low, but we reached the mid-80s. I am not looking forward to it! At least the house is very comfortable, and there's plenty of cool drinks and shade inside.

I'm wrapping up the week with two projects nearly done: The baby pants are complete save one end to be woven in and an I-cord drawstring to make, and I'm almost done with a simple charity hat (that might be ripped back if I don't like how the decreases and finishing look).

I wouldn't say that I'm feeling bored with my knitting, but I'm also not feeling very excited about anything that might come next right now, so perhaps I'll have to spend some time this weekend digging in the stash to see if anything excites me. Or maybe I'll do a little crochet to change things up. And at some point I'd like to get back to spinning; I haven't spun anything in months!

We're planning another quiet weekend, with no plans other than a family dinner at my parents' on Sunday. I suggested to Molly that we bake something to take for dessert. Maybe we'll take a walk to the local farmers' market? Maybe we'll go out for dinner? Who knows! I like having a weekend without a bunch of  plans so that I can see where the days take me. I know I'll be having snuggle time with Ruthie in the afternoons, and that means time for reading and knitting; if I get those in every day, I'm a happy girl.

I hope you have time for your favorite things this weekend, and I hope if you're getting the heat, too, you can find a cool place and a cold drink at the ready.

Unraveled, Week 22/2026

It's Wednesday, so that means it's time to join Kat and the Unravelers! I've got a little knitting update and a pretty good-sized reading update today.

First, the knitting. Houston, we have a leg!

By some stroke of luck, I finished the first leg in exactly the right spot in the stripe pattern so that I didn't have to wind off any yarn when I picked up stitches for the second. I made note of how many rounds I needed to knit after the last decrease and for the ribbing, so the second leg should go even faster.

It's been an interesting week of reading, with some enjoyable audiobooks, a book club book, a long-awaited hold, and some titles on the Women's Prize for Fiction shortlist.

First, Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont, an older book (older than I am, even!), which I read for a book club. Mrs. Palfrey is an older widow who moves into the Claremont, a hotel but also a place where other older people live full time. She encounters some interesting personalities in the other residents, all but one of them women, and tries to figure out what to do with her time. One day she falls when out on her own and makes the acquaintance of a young man, a struggling writer named Ludo, who soon becomes a friend. This is a quiet novel, at times funny and at others sad, whose main focus is primarily the reckoning we all do with our own mortality at one point or another. I enjoyed it, but it didn't leave a very strong impression on me. I gave it 3 stars.

Next were two audiobooks, both novels by J. Ryan Stradal. I know many of you have already read and enjoyed his books, and I've been meaning to read them for a while. I was lucky to find copies available without a wait and listened to them back to back. Kitchens of the Great Midwest reads a bit like a series of interconnected short stories. There are characters who tie them all together, and Eva is at the center of them, starting when she is a baby and following her as she grows up into adulthood. Food is also at the center, as this is a book about food and cooking and the flavors and meals that are at the heart of our memories and formative moments. The audio was read by two actors (Michael Stuhlbarg and Amy Ryan), something I love because they really know how to perform a book instead of just reading the words.

The Lager Queen of Minnesota has the same comfortable Midwestern feel to it but leans more heavily on brewing than cooking. Women are the main characters here, two sisters who are long estranged and the granddaughter of one of them. There's a lot about brewing beer, which isn't exactly of interest to me because I don't drink it, but it's clear there was a lot of research done to write about it based upon the level of detail. What I enjoyed most was the stories of women persevering in spite of the odds against them, and the reader (also an actor!) did a marvelous job of creating distinct voices for each character, down to the accents.

I really enjoyed my time with both books and gave them both 4 stars.

The Wilderness was one of those books I was seeing everywhere for a while; it was nominated for the National Book Award last year and had a long hold list at my library, so I was waiting for it for quite a while. Based upon the first chapter, I thought I was going to love it ... and then I didn't. This is a book about a group of female friends over a period of time, but the story isn't told linearly, and that's what gave me so much trouble. I thought the writing was outstanding, but because the story jumped forward and backward in time in addition to jumping between characters, I had a really hard time keeping them and their stories straight. (I also found a couple of copyediting mistakes that should have been caught before publication, but I accept that that's not something most readers would even notice.) If I'd edited this book, I would have suggested a chronological timeline; I'm sure the author didn't do it this way on purpose, but why wasn't clear to me, and ultimately that's what made the book not work very well for me. I gave it 3.5 stars, rounded up.

The last two titles I read this week were the two on the Women's Prize shortlist I had not yet read:

The Mercy Step is set in the UK, starting in the early 1960s. Mercy is born to an immigrant Jamaican family with two older sisters already and two children left behind; there will be another sister and a brother who will later follow her. Though the family has a home, they are clearly struggling to improve their lives between the number of children in the household and the father's abusive behavior. Mercy is unlike any of her siblings, as she seems unnaturally intelligent and mature from the get go, though it's clear there are many things about the world she doesn't understand. Most of all, she wants someone to care for her and take care of her; most of the time she feels it's her job to take care of her mother. There are some hard things in this book (domestic abuse, sexual abuse, racism, etc.), but Mercy provides an interesting perspective. The audio is read by the author, and I appreciated hearing the Jamaican accent when the parents spoke. I gave it 3 stars.

I started Kingfisher just before bed and didn't think I'd care for it based on the little I read before I put it down for the night, so I was surprised by how much I enjoyed it as I read more. The narrator of the book (whose name we never learn) is in a long-term relationship with a man when he meets and becomes obsessed with an older poet who is teaching at the university where he works. Meanwhile, his mother, who is homophobic and has always treated him badly, is dying. His life becomes further and further enmeshed with the poet's when she has a recurrence of the cancer she beat years ago, and his emotions get more and more complicated as he reflects on the loss of both his parents. It's a hard book to describe, but what I liked about it was how it depicted the love of friends, of found family, and how they can be there for you at your very worst. This is a debut novel, and I don't think it should win the prize, but I was impressed by it. I gave it 3.5 stars, rounded up.

What are you making and reading this week?

Welcome, June

If there was a complete opposite to last weekend's rain and cooler-than-normal temperatures, this weekend was it: warm sun, blue skies, low humidity, and a light breeze. I enjoyed all of my walks and soaked up as much vitamin D as I could.

My day off on Friday was mostly enjoyable (the only thing I didn't like about it was a bit of acid reflux that interfered with my run in the morning). Our girls' shopping trip was fun and successful. Molly's friend insisted that we go into Ross, where I'd never shopped before, and I found a really cute Tommy Hilfiger sleeveless dress that fit me like a glove and cost me $19.99 -- and I wore it to dinner that night! 

The terrible mirror selfie I texted to Molly for her opinion

I picked up a few other little things (a couple of toys for Ruthie that she'll tear apart in half an hour, a few sewing supplies for a little project I had planned), and the girls tried on a bunch of clothes and bought a few items. And then the three of us had a nice dinner out. Saturday was nice and quiet. Molly worked, I walked and then read and knit while Ruthie napped, and then we had a simple dinner at home. After dinner, Molly drove us to a nearby ice cream place. That was my first time in the car with her driving and also the first time sitting in the back seat of my own car, I think! Yesterday was another low-key day for me, though I baked some cookies in the afternoon and then we had my in-laws over for dinner.

Today I think will finally feel like summer to Molly, and I'm looking forward to not having to rush to pick her up at 3 o'clock. I'm sure there'll be work waiting for me when I log in to my email, but somehow having one less thing to do every day makes me feel more relaxed. And I'm having fun working on baby pants, which may very well get finished this week:

I've finished the entire body/bum section, including grafting the crotch, and am cruising down the first leg. I'm already thinking of how to improve upon this first pair and need to find some more babies to knit for because I can see how knitting one pair of these quickly leads to knitting more.

Other than the usual work schedule, there's nothing planned for this week. The Mister has work dinners three evenings this week, so there will be a lot of girls' nights, and the weather forecast is beautiful all week, so I'll be spending lots of time outside and enjoying it. Did you know that June 1 is the first day of meteorological summer? Feels to me like a good way to start the week!

The End of Another Year

Yes, it's not even the last day of May, but today is the end of Molly's sophomore year of high school. She'll be in school for all of about two hours this morning for closing exercises, and then I'll be picking her and her friend up so they can hang out for the rest of the day. I'm taking the day off from work anyway, so after lunch and Ruthie's midday walk, we are headed to a local shopping center. The girls will be the ones doing the shopping, for the most part, and I'll just be the chauffeur, but I certainly don't mind spending a nice late spring afternoon out of the house.

I haven't done all that much crafting this week, but I did cast on a new project:

It doesn't look like much (mostly because I had to rip out and restart), but this is the beginning of a pair of baby pants for the friends expecting a baby later this year. It's a clever design that has a hemmed waistband with holes for a drawstring. Gauge is given for the main fabric, but the pattern calls for a US 1/2.25 mm needle to be used for the waistband, so that's what a started with. I'd knit a couple of inches before I realized that it was going to be way too small, so I ripped it out and started again with a US 2/2.75 mm needle. Now it's approximately one Ruthie wide and much closer to the finished measurement it should be. I'm using Fibernymph Dye Works yarn, the last skein left unknit from the Lepidoptera Club from a couple of years back -- the colorway is Swallowtails. I've been saving it for something special, and I think this is a worthy use.

We've got a fairly calm weekend ahead, and for once the weather is going to be perfect (sunny and in the mid- to upper 70s). Tonight we're going out for a nice dinner to celebrate a successful end to the school year. Tomorrow I expect Molly will be working, as Sunday she has to be back at school for graduation to perform with the glee club. I'm hoping to get a little extra sleep, take a couple of good long walks by myself, and figure out what larger project I want to start next.

I hope that after last weekend's washout in so many parts of the country, you are getting some sunshine, too, and you can find time to slow down and enjoy this last weekend in May!