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Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Unraveled, Week 24/2026

It's Wednesday today, but it's also kind of Friday for me, given that it's my last workday of the week. How nice to get to use it to talk about what I'm making and reading! As usual, I'm linking up with Kat and the Unravelers.

I've got another hat off the needles, though it still needs a good bath to get the stitches to settle down.

This photo, taken in natural light, is a better representation of the color. I added an extra half inch of length to this one before starting the decreases, and I was worried I was going to play another round of yarn chicken because the ball was getting pretty skimpy toward the end. The finished hat weighed in at 88 g and the remaining yarn at 6 g, so once again I had a pretty underweight skein. Thankfully it was enough to finish, but I'm really starting to wonder if this was a regular problem and part of the reason why the yarn was discontinued! This was the last of it in my stash, though, so I won't have to worry about running short again.

I've just cast on a pair of socks for my sister-in-law (either for her birthday in September or Christmas), and I pulled my bin of fingering skeins out to see if I could get inspired about what to knit next.

It's been another productive week of reading, with five books finished.

Ann Patchett is one of my favorite writers, so naturally I preordered her newest, Whistler, from her bookstore, Parnassus Books. (I like to support my local indie bookstore whenever I can, but ordering from Parnassus means I get a signed copy on the day it comes out!) If you're already an Ann Patchett fan, then this book is already on your radar and I don't have to tell you what it's about, but I will tell you that I loved it. It's beautifully written but also easy to read. The relationships between the characters are the focus, and you can feel their emotions and want to hug them all. And if you know about Ann Patchett's own life story, then you'll see a lot of her in the book, too. This is one of those books that, although it contains sad moments, just makes you want to smile the whole time you're reading it. Highly recommend -- 5 stars!

I had bookmarked Uncultured on Hoopla when I read the description and saw it was compared to Educated and The Glass Castle. Daniella Mestyanek Young was raised in a cult in which physical, emotional, and sexual abuse ran rampant and education of the world outside was severely restricted. She always knew that what was happening to her wasn't right and finally left the group as a teenager to go to high school and college in the United States. After college, she entered the military, only to discover that it had some eerie similarities to the life she left behind. This was a hard book to read in many instances, but I always find it inspirational to read about people, especially women, who are able to stand up for themselves and leave situations in which they are victims. I gave it 4 stars.

I adored A Ghost in the Throat, so when I learned via Katie's blog that the author has a work of fiction coming out later this year, I immediately requested it on NetGalley. Said the Dead is one of those books that's nearly impossible to categorize. Is it fiction? Is it memoir? History? Fantasy? All of the above? The person telling the story (at times described using the first person and at times called simply "the Reader") comes across a former mental hospital being redeveloped into condos. Exploring some of the grounds and buildings, she feels a strange connection, which leads her to seek out the archives of the institution. There she comes across the unusual history of Lucia Strangman, one of the first female doctors to work with the mentally ill, and becomes obsessed with her case notes. The Reader becomes so immersed in the stories of the women who Lucia treated -- so often committed to the hospital not because they were truly ill but because they were at the mercy of men in their life or because they didn't fit in with the society of the time or simply due to extreme poverty -- that she often neglects her own life and family. The narrative is interspersed with haunting images of Lucia, her family, and some of her patients, and throughout there is a mysterious commentary to one side that suggests that as the Reader is somehow watching the lives of these patients unfold, someone is watching her. There is a dreamlike quality to the book, and there's never a clear sense of what is real and what is fiction, but overall there's an immense respect for the many women whose names and lives were utterly forgotten in time. As soon as I finished the book, I wanted to go back to the beginning and read it again, certain there was so much I missed. I gave it 4.5 stars, rounded up. Thank you to NetGalley and Farrar, Straus and Giroux for providing me with a digital ARC of this book in return for an honest review. This book will be published September 22, 2026.

One of the challenges I'm signed up for on the StoryGraph is winners of what is now the Women's Prize for Fiction, so I decided to see what was available without a wait on audio on Libby from that list late last year. The Tiger's Wife came out 15 years ago, but as I had a 1-year-old then, it wasn't on my radar. This is a weird one to describe. It's set in an unnamed country in the Balkans and frequently refers to "the war," though it's never completely clear which war. Natalia is a doctor, on a trip with a friend to deliver medicine and vaccines to an orphanage, when she learns that her beloved grandfather, also a doctor has died. Over the next several days, she remembers the stories he told her of his childhood, where a deaf woman was believed to have had a relationship with an escaped tiger and was referred to as the tiger's wife, and of his encounters with "the deathless man," who appears when people are close to death to help ease their transition. I thought the writing was good but the story was bizarre, and I wasn't entirely sure what the point of it was. The lack of specificity also got a little on my nerves. I gave it 3 stars.

Finally, Molly had asked me to read The Memory Police, which she read for school toward the end of the year and wanted me to read so we could discuss it. This book was published in Japan in 1994 but was only translated into English in 2020. An unnamed narrator is a writer of novels who lives on a remote unnamed island where things are disappearing. When something disappears, so do the island residents' memory of that thing. But there are some people who still remember, and if they are discovered, the Memory Police take them away. When the writer discovers that her editor is one of those people, she decides to hide him in a secret room in her house, and he tries to help her recover her lost memories even as more and more things disappear. In the novel she is writing, a woman becomes romantically involved with her typing teacher, but one day she discovers that she no longer has a voice and has become his captive. The book gets really, really strange, but on a metaphorical level, it's an interesting illustration of how authoritarian governments can maintain control through fear and how easy it can be to acclimate to the loss of things that were once thought necessities. I gave it 3 stars.

What are you making and reading this week?

Monday, June 15, 2026

Half and Half

As usual, the weekend did not last long enough. We had a gorgeous day on Saturday, with blue skies and slightly lower humidity. Ruthie was happy that the recent storms that had gone through the area left behind some great sticks for her to discover on our walks.

She was miffed that I made her leave this one behind.

I had a lovely afternoon of reading and knitting while she dozed, and we had a slightly later-than-usual dinner after Molly got back from her driving lesson (the instructor was impressed with her, so I guess we've been doing something right!).

Yesterday was cloudy for much of the day and we had some light rain in the morning and storms in the evening. Not as nice of a day, but the rain is welcome, not least because it's bringing much more comfortable weather to start off the week. And I didn't mind so much being inside because it helped me finish a book and make a lot of progress on my hat in the afternoon:

Thank you, gloom, for this bad photo.

This is going to be a short week for me: We already had Friday off for Juneteenth, so I decided to take one of my remaining personal days on Thursday and give myself a three-day week followed by a four-day weekend. I'm not going to do much that's different from my usual schedule other than not be on my computer all day, but sometimes even that is enough. I'm hoping that because I won't have to worry about my work inbox, Molly will spend some more time with me -- I am increasingly aware of just how little time we have left before she goes off to college, so I want to take advantage of all the days she's not in school!

Friday, June 12, 2026

TGIF, Really

I am a little later than usual in posting today because yesterday was A Day. Normally I get a post ready to go the afternoon or evening before it publishes, but yesterday I barely had a chance to sit down and have some time to myself until almost 9 p.m., and I didn't have the mental energy to do it them. So instead you're getting me in real time on Friday morning!

So why was yesterday so challenging? Well the first thing you have to know is that it was hot and extremely humid. And with the stage of life I'm in, it takes very little for me to start sweating. My first sweat of the day was taking Ruthie out for her first walk and then immediately going into the office for my biweekly team meeting. I was pretty much soaked when I got there. When I got home from my meeting, I changed into workout clothes and went for a walk (and got sweaty again). I didn't bother changing when I got home because I'd be taking Ruthie out for her midday walk after lunch and getting hot again anyway. After that walk, I did shower and change, again, to go to that recognition ceremony. I had to walk about a mile and a quarter to get to that event, at probably the hottest part of the day, so naturally I was a sweaty mess when I got there. Even though the event was inside, I was in a room with a bunch of people and sitting on a vinyl-covered chair, so I never fully cooled off. And then on the way home, when I was a mere three blocks from my street, I got caught in a thunderstorm, and though I had an umbrella, it did little to protect me from rain blowing sideways, so I was dripping by the time I got to my door and had to change yet again -- and there was still one more walk to take Ruthie on, though thankfully the rain cooled things down just a bit. If you're keeping track, that's four outfit changes over the course of the day. I also had to take a second shower before bed. And if that's not enough (and sorry if this is TMI), Aunt Flo arrived for her visit yesterday, so I was dealing with cramps as well. Can you see why I'm very glad it's the end of the week?

It's going to be another steamy day today, but the humidity is supposed to go down quite a bit tonight, so the weekend should be more comfortable. And I am thankful for the rain we've been getting after a dry week so that all the plants and flower seeds are getting watered. I'm really looking forward to having a typical afternoon today, a time to read and knit while Ruthie naps next to me. Thanks to afternoons like that earlier in the week, I've finished another charity hat:

It still needs to be blocked, but I'm pretty happy with it. I used my Spinning in Infinity pattern (Ravelry link) with US 5/3.75 mm needles for the body and US 3/3.25 mm needles for the ribbing. It used 90 g of the skein of Chroma Twist in Lupine; clearly my skein was underweight because I had only a few grams remaining and it was supposed to be 100 g.

Last night, in that little bit of time I had to myself, I cast on another hat -- a second attempt at that hat I wasn't sure about.

This is the last skein of Chroma Twist from my stash. It's now discontinued, which is why I think I bought a bunch of skeins of it a while back because it was likely heavily discounted. The black yarn you see is a provisional cast-on for a tubular edge and will be removed very soon. The consensus from those of you who commented here and from some friends on Ravelry was that the hat was cute, so I'm giving it a try with a more interesting yarn and seeing if I can make it pattern.

I'm hoping to have a quiet weekend; Molly has a bunch of stuff going on, including her first official driving lesson, but none of her activities will require me to do anything. I've not slept well this week, so I'm hoping I can get a little extra (though this time of year, it's tough to sleep in because the sun comes up so early!), and maybe I can sneak in an afternoon nap or two!

Have a great weekend, friends. Remember to stay hydrated, wear your sunblock, and enjoy the good things.

Wednesday, June 10, 2026

Unraveled, Week 23/2026

Happy Wednesday! It has been a steamy start to the week, and I've found that I've been less and less tolerant of heat and humidity, so I've just accepted that it's the time of year when I'm going to have to deal with being sweaty all the time. I've also pretty much given up on blow-drying my hair unless I really feel like I want to look nice -- wet bun for the win! This weather is probably why I've feel a little unexcited about knitting lately, but I did promise some more official FO shots of my recent finishes and it's Wednesday, so I'm linking up with Kat and the Unravelers as per usual.

First, the baby pants!

The pattern is Rocky from Tin Can Knits. I chose the smallest size (0-6 months), even though I usually make a larger size for baby knits, because this baby will be born in Sweden and will need some warm clothing right away. I knit these at the gauge called for in the pattern, 24 stitches over 4 inches, but the fabric seems a little too loose for my taste, so the next time I knit these -- and trust me, there will be a next time -- I will likely either use a smaller needle and one of the larger sizes or just use thicker yarn. As is always the case with TCK patterns, this one was a breeze to follow and didn't require any modification. I didn't even need to wind off any yarn to start the second leg because the first one was bound off in just the right spot!

Next up, that hat I wasn't sure about:

I hope you can excuse the crazy hair; I pulled out the bun to get the hat to fit as it should. The reason I wasn't so sure about the hat is that I'm not sure if the pointy-uppy part looks fun or just ridiculous. I'm sure it'll suit someone, though, and that's just as well because this is going to the charity pile. But I was experimenting with the crown decreases all the same to satisfy my curiosity for design purposes. Any thoughts are welcome!

I'm sticking with a more traditional look for the current hat on the needles (also for the charity pile), which is now onto the ribbing.

Reading! There's been more of it! Here are the books I've finished this week:

I love a retelling of a classic, and I especially love a retelling of a Jane Austen novel. Unmarriageable is a retelling of Pride and Prejudice set in early 21st-century Pakistan, and it's brilliantly done. Alys (the Elizabeth Bennet character) is even an English literature teacher who loves Jane Austen! What was really interesting about this book was that storylines didn't really have to be modernized all that much to make sense, and the author notes that when she first read Austen, she very much felt like the world of those novels were nearly identical to the Pakistani society she knew. The author reads the audiobook and does a good job with the voices and accents. I also really appreciated the names she came up with for the characters and the traits that made them so recognizable. I gave it 4.5 stars, rounded up.

I wanted something fairly light and whimsical next, so I went for A Witch's Guide to Magical Innkeeping, a relatively recent release (it came out last summer) that I've heard mentioned on podcasts several times. Sera was once a young witch with incredible powers, but she lost them and was exiled from the local guild after she cast a powerful spell to bring her beloved great aunt (and, inadvertently, the aunt's beloved late rooster) back to life. Fifteen years later, she's running the inn where they live and that's slightly magical in such a way that it appears to those who need it and thus has become home to people who don't seem to fit in anywhere. While it's partly a story about Sera trying to get her powers back, what I enjoyed the most about it was that it was a story about found family and people coming to love themselves. I gave it 4 stars.

In Unlikely Animals, Emma Starling, who once possessed the ability to heal people through touch, has returned to her childhood home in a small New Hampshire town. She was accepted to medical school but decided not to go, and when she learns that her father has a mysterious brain disease causing him to hallucinate animals and the ghost of a famous local naturalist, going home seems to be the best option. There she finds her mother hasn't fully forgiven her father for having an affair and her brother is struggling to get his life back on track after getting out of rehab for opioid addiction, and while her father is seeing animals and ghosts, he's also determined to find Emma's childhood best friend, who disappeared some months ago and is presumed to be dead of an overdose. This sounds like it would be incredibly depressing, but it's actually mostly funny and heartwarming. I think I enjoyed The Road to Tenderhearts a little more, but I gave this one 4 stars.

The Last Ranger sounded good to me when it was described in a recent podcast episode, and I've liked the Peter Heller books I've read before, so I thought I'd give it a try. It follows Ren, a park ranger in Yellowstone, as he investigates what looks to be poaching and then what appears to be an attack on his friend Hilly, a biologist who specializes in wolves. He also reflects on his childhood and the alcoholism of and abandonment by his mother. I thought the book was interesting, and it held my attention for the most part, but I struggled to follow the story and keep track of the characters at times. That may have been because I was listening rather than reading with my eyes, but regardless, this was not my favorite Heller. I gave it 3 stars.

I heard about How to Commit a Postcolonial Murder on a podcast (are you shocked?). For such a short novel -- only about 200 pages -- there is a lot going on here. The narrator and her sister are the product of an Indian mother and American father, and they live in Wyoming while their father is away working on oil rigs. They struggle with the usual issues of identity and being "other" in a very white small town, but when their mother's brother and his family come from India to live with them, that is the least of their worries. When their uncle begins to molest them, the sisters decide that they can't tell their mother and make her unhappy, so the best solution is to murder him by poisoning him with antifreeze. It's weird and different but also intriguing. I gave it 3 stars.


Now I'm trying to finish up the last 80 or so pages of Whistler, and I have several books waiting to start next. How about you -- what are you making and reading this week?


Monday, June 08, 2026

Fire and Rain

It certainly felt like a summer weekend here! The heat started building on Friday, leading up to an honest-to-goodness thunderstorm Saturday afternoon (incidentally, while Molly was out driving, giving her some "bad driving conditions" hours). We really needed the rain, after more than a week without any, and it was kind of fun to watch it come it from the comfort of the couch -- it conveniently came through between Ruthie's midday walk and her late-afternoon walk. It cleared up and even cooled off a bit in the evening, but we had some more rain overnight and there's plenty more in the forecast for the week ahead, along with humidity. I expect it will be a sweaty week!

Part of my weekend was spent finishing up and blocking my two most recent projects, presented for you here still wet:

That drawstring will need to be threaded through the waistband once dry, and I also might need to do a little duplicate stitching on the bum of the pants because I had some loosey-goosey stitches result from some of my short rows. The hat will be tried on once dry; I'm still not sure if it'll look fun or silly.

The week ahead is shaping up to be a little busier than last. Ruthie has her annual visit at the vet scheduled for Wednesday morning. She is due to get a vaccination, but they always make a fuss over her and give her cookies and peanut butter, so I don't think she'll mind much. On Thursday, I'm planning to attend a reception with the university's chancellor honoring employees for long service; officially I'm being recognized for 20 years of service, but because my employer moves so slowly on things like this, I'll actually be closer to 21 years than 20 by the time this happens. It'll be interesting to see what happens at this event. It's in the middle of the afternoon, so maybe we'll get some light refreshments. Frankly I'm more interested in the recognition gift I selected: After getting what was essentially an ashtray for five years (rather than the mug it used to be and that I was hoping for) and a set of bookends for 10, I picked out a pair of binoculars -- because I'm now a middle-aged lady and of course I've taken up casual birding. There's rain in the forecast almost every day starting Tuesday, and I'm hoping when it comes it works with my schedule to get my runs and walks in. Last week, for the first time ever, I managed three 10Ks in a single week, but I think that's a feat I'm unlikely to repeat now that summertime heat and humidity have descended on us. Still, I'm pretty proud of that accomplishment!

I'm working on some small projects now while I figure out what bigger thing to cast on next, but at the very least I should have some better photos of the above projects to share on Wednesday along with the usual reading update. I hope you're also seeing sun and needed rain in your neck of the woods -- don't forget to stay well hydrated and wear your sunblock! Have a good start to your week, all!

Friday, June 05, 2026

Summer Incoming

TGIF! It's been a long week, even though it's been pretty calm having Molly at home with me. Partly it's that we're getting more daylight as we approach the summer solstice, but Ruthie's also been stretching out our walks by plopping down on lawns and refusing to move, which contributes the feeling that the stuff I have to do every day is taking more time.

It has been nice to have Molly around, though she's mainly been holed up in her room (she's decided that she's just relaxing this first week of summer break; I think she's earned it). We did pick up some dinner and take it over to my mother's the other evening when both my father and the Mister were out, so that was fun, and she even helped me make dinner on Wednesday. I expect that she'll be working during the week soon, which I'm hoping will encourage her to get up at a more reasonable hour every day.

After having several days of my absolute favorite weather ever -- sunny, low to mid-70s, low humidity -- the heat and the mugginess are coming back. Yesterday the humidity was still low, but we reached the mid-80s. I am not looking forward to it! At least the house is very comfortable, and there's plenty of cool drinks and shade inside.

I'm wrapping up the week with two projects nearly done: The baby pants are complete save one end to be woven in and an I-cord drawstring to make, and I'm almost done with a simple charity hat (that might be ripped back if I don't like how the decreases and finishing look).

I wouldn't say that I'm feeling bored with my knitting, but I'm also not feeling very excited about anything that might come next right now, so perhaps I'll have to spend some time this weekend digging in the stash to see if anything excites me. Or maybe I'll do a little crochet to change things up. And at some point I'd like to get back to spinning; I haven't spun anything in months!

We're planning another quiet weekend, with no plans other than a family dinner at my parents' on Sunday. I suggested to Molly that we bake something to take for dessert. Maybe we'll take a walk to the local farmers' market? Maybe we'll go out for dinner? Who knows! I like having a weekend without a bunch of  plans so that I can see where the days take me. I know I'll be having snuggle time with Ruthie in the afternoons, and that means time for reading and knitting; if I get those in every day, I'm a happy girl.

I hope you have time for your favorite things this weekend, and I hope if you're getting the heat, too, you can find a cool place and a cold drink at the ready.

Wednesday, June 03, 2026

Unraveled, Week 22/2026

It's Wednesday, so that means it's time to join Kat and the Unravelers! I've got a little knitting update and a pretty good-sized reading update today.

First, the knitting. Houston, we have a leg!

By some stroke of luck, I finished the first leg in exactly the right spot in the stripe pattern so that I didn't have to wind off any yarn when I picked up stitches for the second. I made note of how many rounds I needed to knit after the last decrease and for the ribbing, so the second leg should go even faster.

It's been an interesting week of reading, with some enjoyable audiobooks, a book club book, a long-awaited hold, and some titles on the Women's Prize for Fiction shortlist.


First, Mrs Palfrey at the Claremont, an older book (older than I am, even!), which I read for a book club. Mrs. Palfrey is an older widow who moves into the Claremont, a hotel but also a place where other older people live full time. She encounters some interesting personalities in the other residents, all but one of them women, and tries to figure out what to do with her time. One day she falls when out on her own and makes the acquaintance of a young man, a struggling writer named Ludo, who soon becomes a friend. This is a quiet novel, at times funny and at others sad, whose main focus is primarily the reckoning we all do with our own mortality at one point or another. I enjoyed it, but it didn't leave a very strong impression on me. I gave it 3 stars.
Next were two audiobooks, both novels by J. Ryan Stradal. I know many of you have already read and enjoyed his books, and I've been meaning to read them for a while. I was lucky to find copies available without a wait and listened to them back to back. Kitchens of the Great Midwest reads a bit like a series of interconnected short stories. There are characters who tie them all together, and Eva is at the center of them, starting when she is a baby and following her as she grows up into adulthood. Food is also at the center, as this is a book about food and cooking and the flavors and meals that are at the heart of our memories and formative moments. The audio was read by two actors (Michael Stuhlbarg and Amy Ryan), something I love because they really know how to perform a book instead of just reading the words.

The Lager Queen of Minnesota has the same comfortable Midwestern feel to it but leans more heavily on brewing than cooking. Women are the main characters here, two sisters who are long estranged and the granddaughter of one of them. There's a lot about brewing beer, which isn't exactly of interest to me because I don't drink it, but it's clear there was a lot of research done to write about it based upon the level of detail. What I enjoyed most was the stories of women persevering in spite of the odds against them, and the reader (also an actor!) did a marvelous job of creating distinct voices for each character, down to the accents.

I really enjoyed my time with both books and gave them both 4 stars.

The Wilderness was one of those books I was seeing everywhere for a while; it was nominated for the National Book Award last year and had a long hold list at my library, so I was waiting for it for quite a while. Based upon the first chapter, I thought I was going to love it ... and then I didn't. This is a book about a group of female friends over a period of time, but the story isn't told linearly, and that's what gave me so much trouble. I thought the writing was outstanding, but because the story jumped forward and backward in time in addition to jumping between characters, I had a really hard time keeping them and their stories straight. (I also found a couple of copyediting mistakes that should have been caught before publication, but I accept that that's not something most readers would even notice.) If I'd edited this book, I would have suggested a chronological timeline; I'm sure the author didn't do it this way on purpose, but why wasn't clear to me, and ultimately that's what made the book not work very well for me. I gave it 3.5 stars, rounded up.

The last two titles I read this week were the two on the Women's Prize shortlist I had not yet read:

The Mercy Step is set in the UK, starting in the early 1960s. Mercy is born to an immigrant Jamaican family with two older sisters already and two children left behind; there will be another sister and a brother who will later follow her. Though the family has a home, they are clearly struggling to improve their lives between the number of children in the household and the father's abusive behavior. Mercy is unlike any of her siblings, as she seems unnaturally intelligent and mature from the get go, though it's clear there are many things about the world she doesn't understand. Most of all, she wants someone to care for her and take care of her; most of the time she feels it's her job to take care of her mother. There are some hard things in this book (domestic abuse, sexual abuse, racism, etc.), but Mercy provides an interesting perspective. The audio is read by the author, and I appreciated hearing the Jamaican accent when the parents spoke. I gave it 3 stars.

I started Kingfisher just before bed and didn't think I'd care for it based on the little I read before I put it down for the night, so I was surprised by how much I enjoyed it as I read more. The narrator of the book (whose name we never learn) is in a long-term relationship with a man when he meets and becomes obsessed with an older poet who is teaching at the university where he works. Meanwhile, his mother, who is homophobic and has always treated him badly, is dying. His life becomes further and further enmeshed with the poet's when she has a recurrence of the cancer she beat years ago, and his emotions get more and more complicated as he reflects on the loss of both his parents. It's a hard book to describe, but what I liked about it was how it depicted the love of friends, of found family, and how they can be there for you at your very worst. This is a debut novel, and I don't think it should win the prize, but I was impressed by it. I gave it 3.5 stars, rounded up.

What are you making and reading this week?