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Thursday, April 17, 2025

Poetry in April: Poems about Aging

It's another Thursday in April, which means it's again time to share a poem. The theme this week is "Poems about Aging," and I had bookmarked this poem even before I knew I'd be using it. This one comes from Ted Kooser -- it's one of his Valentine's Day poems -- and I love the image it gives me of a couple growing older together.

Splitting an Order

I like to watch on old man cutting a sandwich in half,
maybe an ordinary cold roast beef on whole wheat bread,
no pickles or onion, keeping his shaky hands steady
by placing his forearms firm on the edge of the table
and using both hands, the left to hold the sandwich in place,
and the right to cut it surely, corner to corner,
observing his progress through glasses that moments before
he wiped with his napkin, and then to see him lift half
onto the extra plate that he had asked the server to bring,
and then to wait, offering the plate to his wife
while she slowly unrolls her napkin and places her spoon,
her knife and her fork in their proper places,
then smoothes the starched white napkin over her knees
and meets his eyes and holds out both hands to him.


From Valentines by Ted Kooser, University of Nebraska Press, 2008


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7 comments:

  1. Beautiful, Sarah! Just beautiful! I love that the old man is the one doing the "prep" work! It takes it from a mother-like task and makes it more intimate gift between a husband and wife.

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  2. This is a really lovely, gentle poem that shows aging in a more positive way and that is wonderful (since it happens to all of us if we're lucky)!

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  3. Just the other week I read this poem (again). I love it so much. It reminds me of my parents (and lately of Fletch and me!).

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  4. What a lovely poem, Sarah. Ted Kooser seems always able to catch those quiet moments of life in his special beam of light!

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  5. The imagery of the old man cutting a sandwich in half to share with his wife brought tears to my eyes. We think it will take a long time to get to that point in our lives but it comes so much faster than we ever thought.

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  6. Oh Sarah, I love this one! (and I'm grateful Marc and I aren't quite at that point yet, but my parents were...)

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  7. This is one of my favorites. Age has a way of creeping up on us, sooner than we would like.

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